Breakups....

So I've recently just been through a break up and it didn't feel good... but guess what... I don't regret or resent anything that happened. =D
Now it's my friend's turn to go through a break up and I've been giving her advice... just telling her what I learned. Hopefully it helps *crosses fingers*.
I honestly believe that everything happens for a reason and in the end, everyone's with someone they deserve and who deserves them. There's really something to be said about the power of love though. I think as long as your wear your heart on your sleeve, there's nothing you can regret cause you learn so much from every single experience life throws at you.

I think as long as there's a connection between two people, there's a friendship. Whether or not it grows, is another thing.

To me, wearing our heart on your sleeve = opening up to someone more than you've ever opened up before. Putting you trust in that person and putting your feelings out there. Sometimes it's not reciprocated and that's too bad, but when it is, i bet it makes up for all those other times. To love someone = doing exactly that, and being willing to do anything for them. I've learned that when you truly love someone, you should be willing to tell them anything. Whether it's about a fight with your parents, a fight with friends, an embarassing story, a very happy story, anything. There shouldn't be a second thought about whether or not you should tell them. It should be something natural and if it's not, then perhaps you should rethink your relationship with that person.

Perhaps that's what you did and if it is, I'm glad =D